Ménage · Adults 18+
Trans dating without assumptions
Trans men, trans women and non-binary adults are welcome on Ménage. Your main profile type is your choice; optional trans identity details add context without replacing who you are.
Let people describe themselves
Use the name and language someone chooses. Some people search for TS dating, but not everyone uses TS or any particular label for themselves. Ask respectfully when it matters, accept their answer and do not demand disclosure about someone’s body or history.
Identity is not a sexual invitation
Trans identity does not imply availability, a preferred role, a fetish or a particular relationship style. Talk about shared interests as individuals. Questions about personal boundaries belong in a mutually welcome conversation, not a demand for proof.
Contact choices remain personal
Optional identities can help with discovery and incoming-message preferences. They are self-declared, not independently established. You can remove your optional choices in My profile. Other people’s private contact settings do not give permission to harass them or attempt another route after a refusal.
Common questions
Must I disclose that I am trans?
No. Additional identity details are optional. Share only what you choose, understanding that declared details may be used in search and contact choices.
Can a trans woman choose Woman as her profile type?
Yes. Trans women may choose Woman, and trans men may choose Man. Additional identities do not replace the main profile type.
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