Ménage · Adults 18+
Lesbian dating with clear boundaries
Ménage welcomes lesbian adults looking for dates, relationships, friendships or community. Your profile can describe the connection you want without having to fit a stereotype.
Keep every person visible in the conversation
If a couple or another partner is involved, say so clearly. Do not present a couple’s account as a single person or introduce an undisclosed partner later. Each person decides independently whether they want to continue.
Choose your contact audience
Use Choose who can contact me to allow the profile types and declared identities you are comfortable hearing from. For example, you may allow Women while leaving Men and Couples unticked. Additional identity permissions work alongside the main profile type, rather than replacing it.
Respect privacy and pace
There is no need to share a workplace, home address or social account to establish interest. Choose a public first meeting if you decide to meet, arrange transport you control and respect a change of mind without pressure.
Common questions
Can I choose who may message me?
Yes. The opt-in contact-choice setting applies to new messages and existing threads. It uses voluntary profile details, not inferred identities or orientation.
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Ménage is a UK community for adults 18+. Respect, privacy and consent come first.
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